Why waiting is
NOT
an Option.  

There Will Never Be a Perfect Time:
Why You Need to Start Now

Hey, let’s talk about something that’s been on your mind (and honestly, all of our minds at some point). Waiting for the perfect moment to start. Whether it’s chasing a dream, changing careers, starting a fitness journey, or just picking up a long-forgotten hobby. That elusive when its “right time” has probably kept you stuck more than once. But hey me to! Here’s the real talk though. There will never be a perfect time. And that’s okay. In fact, it’s more than okay, because it means you can start creating your amazing life right now. Let’s lean in, friend-to-friend and coach-to-coachee style, on how to stop holding yourself back and finally get moving toward the life your wanting.

The Myth of the Perfect Moment

We all do it. You wait for the new year, the next Monday, for things to “settle down” at work, for more money in your bank, for the kids to get older, for the stars to align. But here’s the truth. Life will always be a little bit messy at the minimum. There will always be something else demanding your attention. If you wait for every green light to flash at once, you’ll end up waiting forever.
The idea of a perfect time is comforting because it lets us off the hook. If conditions aren’t right, we can’t fail, because we never really started. But that safety net is also a trap. It keeps us from discovering just how much we’re capable of. Let’s not let that happen to you. Acknowledge what’s holding you back and remind yourself that action is the antidote to fear.

Why Now Is Always Better Than Later

Think about everything you’re passionate about, the things you daydream about when you let your mind wander. Now, imagine if you had started working toward just one of those dreams a year ago. Where would you be now? Even small, shaky steps would have brought you closer. But the only difference between people living or actively pursuing their dreams and those still waiting is that the first group started, even before they felt ready.

Key Steps to Internally Get Going

Alright, let’s get to the heart of it: How do you actually move past the hesitation and get going internally? Here’s some how to, step by step:

1. Accept Imperfection as a Starting Point
Stop waiting for the stars to align. Perfection is a myth, progress is real. Embrace that your first attempt might and probably will be messy. That’s not just okay, it’s necessary! Growth only happens when you start from where you are, not where you wish you were.
2. Identify the Real Fear
Often, “waiting for the right time” is code for fear. Fear of failure, judgment, rejection, or even success. Name your fear. Say it out loud or write it down. When you face it, you take away some of its power.
3. Break It Down into Micro-Steps
Big dreams are overwhelming. Instead of trying to leap the whole staircase, focus on the next step. Want to start a side business? Don’t worry about the grand opening. Start by brainstorming ideas for 10 minutes today.
4. Visualize the Cost of Inaction
Ask yourself, what will it cost me to stay where I am? What will be the potential outcome if I continue down this road? Sometimes, imagining the regret of not trying is more motivating than focusing on the rewards. Picture this, your future self a year from now. Will you be glad you waited, or wish you had started?
5. Create a Simple Ritual to Begin
Starting is often the hardest part. Make it easier with a trigger — a song, a cup of coffee, a five-minute timer. Attach your action to something you already do, and it’ll feel less like a mountain to climb and more like a gentle nudge.
6. Embrace Community and Accountability
Share your goal with a friend (or your friendly coach (me!). Telling someone makes it real, and they’ll cheer you on when your motivation dips or when your going through a real rough time. Accountability is a powerful motivator.
7. Celebrate Small Wins
Every step counts. Did you show up today, even for five minutes? Was it something that moved your goals or dreams forward? If so, that’s a win! Celebrate it. Progress isn’t measured only in giant leaps — it’s the sum of dozens of small, brave choices.

Stop Holding Yourself Back: Your Future Is Waiting

Here’s the hard truth, but it’s also the good news! No one is coming to give you permission. The only person who can make you start is you. The life you want, the amazing, fulfilling, surprising one! Is waiting, but only if you’re willing to reach for it, even when conditions are less than perfect.
Don’t let the fear of imperfection rob you of experiences, friendships, skills, and adventures! The discomfort you feel now is temporary, but the regret of never trying can last a lifetime. You deserve more than that.

Final Thoughts

If you’ve been waiting for a sign, consider this it. Maybe your sign was seeing something tragic. Maybe your sign comes in the form of pain, or sadness. There will never be a perfect moment, but there will always be a now. Isn’t that all you need. Start messy. Start scared. Start with doubt. But start!! Because once you do, you’ll realize that the most important thing wasn’t timing. It was your willingness to try.
Here’s to your next step! To the amazing life ahead. I’m cheering you on, every step of the way my friend. The world witnessed something tragic on September 10th 2025. Put political views aside…. Innocent lives where taken that day. There where multiple shootings that happened in one day. The point of bringing these even up! Is to help you realize that none of us never know when its going to end for us. SO knowing that! Chase your dreams! Shoot, chase your fears and doubts away with ACTION! Make your life count! Why? Because people you don’t even know are counting on you to, oh and your future self…..